Imposter Syndrome: Why It Happens and How to Calm It

Imposter syndrome often isn’t a lack of ability—it’s a threat response. When your brain predicts judgment or rejection, it can trigger doubt, perfectionism, and over-preparing.

Common signs

Discounting your wins

Overworking to ‘earn’ belonging

Fear of being exposed

Comparing yourself to people you don’t actually know

A nervous-system reset you can use in 90 seconds

Exhale longer than you inhale (e.g., 4 in / 6 out) for 6 breaths.

Name 3 things you can see and 2 things you can feel.

Ask: ‘What’s one small action that moves me forward anyway?’

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